Poker Downswing Support: What to Say and Do

Poker players often find themselves in downswings, and it can be challenging to know how to support them. Experts share their advice on what to say and do.

What Not to Say

Anton Koté advises against asking a poker player in a downswing how they played today, if they lost, or calling them a loser. Pasha speedTLT agrees, noting that criticizing a player's game or approach is not helpful. Alexander OGamee also advises against telling a poker player in a downswing that they are just playing badly, as this can be detrimental to their morale and confidence.

How to Support a Friend in a Downswing

Anton Koté suggests that supporting a friend in a downswing involves listening to them and helping them analyze their game. Pasha speedTLT agrees, suggesting offering help such as reviewing their hands or sessions. Alexander OGamee also suggests offering to help a friend in a downswing by reviewing their hands or sessions. Nikolay nsmirnov notes that constant criticism and lack of explanation during a downswing can be detrimental, so it's important to be patient and supportive.

Dealing with Tilt

Anton Koté jokes that a downswing can be caused by a cushion between the chair and keyboard, and suggests hitting someone with a stick to stop them from tilting. Pasha speedTLT notes that some players tilt more than others and that it's important to be patient. Alexander OGamee suggests that stopping someone from tilting is difficult, especially remotely, and usually requires someone who is nearby.